• The Subject That Could Change the World

    The Subject That Could Change the World

    If I could add one subject to every school curriculum, it would not be another language, an advanced technology course, or a lesson in personal finance—although all of those have value. I would teach kindness. Not kindness as a slogan printed on a classroom wall. Not kindness reduced to holding a door open, sharing crayons,…

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  • The Cost of Being Myself

    The Cost of Being Myself

    I used to worry constantly about what would happen if people ever saw the whole of me. For much of my life, I believed love depended upon my ability to remain recognizable to others. I could be loved as long as I stayed within the boundaries people had drawn around me—as long as I played…

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  • My Favorite Quote

    My Favorite Quote

    My favorite quote is one I return to whenever faith becomes tangled in rules, traditions, buildings, and arguments: “Jesus formed a community before Christianity built an institution.” Those words remind me of something the church can too easily forget. Before there were denominations, doctrinal statements, governing bodies, stained-glass sanctuaries, or theological degrees, there was simply…

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  • The Lost Art of Listening

    The Lost Art of Listening

    What’s a skill I consider basic that most people don’t actually know how to do? Listening. Nearly everyone can hear, but very few people truly listen. Hearing is biological. Sound enters the ear, travels through the body, and registers in the brain. Listening is something deeper. It requires intention. It asks us to set aside…

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  • My Most Relatable Fictional Character

    My Most Relatable Fictional Character

    Prompt: Who Is the Fictional Character You Relate to the Most? There are louder heroes than Walter Mitty. There are men who save galaxies, detectives who solve impossible murders, wizards who defeat darkness, and warriors who charge into battle with swords raised toward the sky. None of them ever felt like me. Walter Mitty did.…

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